  {"id":69369,"date":"2017-10-17T16:33:04","date_gmt":"2017-10-18T02:33:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/?p=69369"},"modified":"2019-03-13T11:00:21","modified_gmt":"2019-03-13T21:00:21","slug":"uh-hilo-national-coming-out-day-panel","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/2017\/10\/17\/uh-hilo-national-coming-out-day-panel\/","title":{"rendered":"Being an ally of <abbr title=\"Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, Questioning, and others\">LGBTQ+<\/abbr> community focus of <abbr title=\"University of Hawaii\">UH<\/abbr> Hilo National Coming Out Day panel"},"content":{"rendered":"<span class=\"span-reading-time rt-reading-time\" style=\"display: block;\"><span class=\"rt-label rt-prefix\">Reading time: <\/span> <span class=\"rt-time\"> &lt; 1<\/span> <span class=\"rt-label rt-postfix\">minute<\/span><\/span><figure id=\"attachment_69382\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-69382\" style=\"width: 676px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/hilo-lgbtq-panel.jpg\" alt=\"four people sitting at table\" width=\"676\" height=\"381\" class=\"size-full wp-image-69382\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/hilo-lgbtq-panel.jpg 676w, https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/hilo-lgbtq-panel-300x169.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 676px) 100vw, 676px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-69382\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">National Coming Out Day at <abbr title=\"University of Hawaii\">UH<\/abbr> Hilo included a panel discussion with, from left, Chenit Ong-Flaherty, Joel Tan, Destiny Rodriguez and Coan Yates-Tese.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/hilo.hawaii.edu\/\">University of <span aria-label=\"Hawaii\">Âé¶¹´«Ã½<\/span> at Hilo<\/a> students and the community learned about the resources, both on and off campus, for the <abbr title=\u201clesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and questioning and others\">LGBTQ+<\/abbr> community as well as how to become a more supportive ally at the campus\u2019 <a href=\"http:\/\/www.hrc.org\/resources\/national-coming-out-day\">National Coming Out Day<\/a> celebration on October 11. <abbr>UH<\/abbr> Hilo has made the commitment to offer support to the <abbr>LGBTQ+<\/abbr> community through promoting a stronger, healthier and equitable environment.<\/p>\n<p>A highlight of the National Coming Out Day event was a panel presentation with four diverse and unique individuals that discussed the various ways of becoming a supportive ally. Being an ally can be challenging especially when it is not clear where support is needed but the best way, according to the panel, is to be curious and do your own research.<\/p>\n<p>The panel also stressed that conversing about the social issues facing the <abbr>LGBTQ+<\/abbr> community raises awareness and solidifies that these issues are dynamic, real and relevant. It helps people realize that protecting <abbr>LGBTQ+<\/abbr> rights is protecting human rights.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Panelists tips and reminders<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>&ldquo;How can you be more supportive, in general, to anyone you\u2019re close with?&rdquo; asks Joel Barraquiel Tan, current executive director at Kalani Honua and an artist, writer, performer and activist. &ldquo;Get more curious and learn more.&rdquo;<\/li>\n<li><strong>Destiny Rodriguez<\/strong>, current prevention educator and confidential advocate at the Office of Equal Employment Opportunity and Affirmative Action at <abbr>UH<\/abbr> Hilo says, &ldquo;One person is not the voice for all&#8212;not all of us are going to be allies for everyone, but being open and honest about not knowing things is best. We\u2019re not expected to know everything but everything starts by asking questions.&rdquo;<\/li>\n<li><strong>Chenit Ong-Flaherty<\/strong>, a new faculty member in the <abbr>UH<\/abbr> Hilo School of Nursing, was also a part of the panel. Ong-Flaherty has more than 20 years experience in teaching about transgender issues and equality. &ldquo;Being an ally is also being an advocate, it\u2019s pretty simple. Ask yourself what the right thing to do is. The right thing is to stand up for human rights because we are all equal.&rdquo;<\/li>\n<li>Coan Yates-Tese, a transgender community member, says, &ldquo;Ask for a perspective and definitely do some of your own research but most importantly, treating me like a regular friend is being an ally\u2014advocating for equality is how you become a supportive ally.&rdquo;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2><abbr>LGBTQ+<\/abbr> resources<\/h2>\n<p>There are numerous support services and resources available around <span aria-label=\"Hawaii\">Âé¶¹´«Ã½<\/span> Island and the campus community. In addition to the <a href=\"https:\/\/hilo.hawaii.edu\/studentaffairs\/lgbtq\/\"><abbr>UH<\/abbr> Hilo <abbr>LGBTQ+<\/abbr> Center<\/a>, university services include the <a href=\"https:\/\/hilo.hawaii.edu\/eeoaa\/\">Office of Equal Employment Opportunity and Affirmative Action<\/a>. Community groups include <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/hawaiiislandpride.org\/\"><span aria-label=\"Hawaii\">Âé¶¹´«Ã½<\/span> Island Pride<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/kalani.com\/\">Kalani Honua<\/a>, a retreat center in <span aria-label=\"Kau\">Ka&#699;u<\/span>.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Related <em><abbr>UH<\/abbr> News<\/em> story<\/strong>: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/2017\/10\/03\/hilo-lgbtq-center-one-year-anniversary\/\"><em><abbr>UH<\/abbr> Hilo LGBTQ+ Center celebrates one-year anniversary<\/em><\/a>, October 3, 2017<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>For more on this story, <a href=\"http:\/\/hilo.hawaii.edu\/news\/stories\/2017\/10\/17\/national-coming-out-day-at-uh-hilo-panel-discusses-how-to-be-an-ally-of-lgbtq-community\/\">go to <abbr title=\"University of Hawaii\">UH<\/abbr> Hilo Stories<\/em><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;A <em><abbr title=\"University of Hawaii\">UH<\/abbr> Hilo Stories<\/em> article written by Anne Rivera, a public information intern in the Office of the Chancellor<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The panel made clear that conversing about the social issues facing the LGBTQ+ community raises awareness and solidifies that these issues are dynamic, real, and relevant.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":16,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[26],"tags":[690,14,907],"class_list":["post-69369","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-community","tag-lgbtq","tag-uh-hilo","tag-uh-hilo-stories","entry","has-media"],"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/69369","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/16"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=69369"}],"version-history":[{"count":11,"href":"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/69369\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":92561,"href":"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/69369\/revisions\/92561"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=69369"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=69369"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=69369"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}